"25 things that are true for this writer and so must also be true for everyone else."
a homo loses their shit if heteros make generalizations like this- but for some reason, when a homo makes a pretty, rebloggable jpeg explaining 25 things that all homos have or should have in common, it gets 10,000 notes.
there isnt a type of person who doesn’t at some point feel fat or ugly, there are also plenty of people who feel fucking great about themselves just as often as they feel terrible because they take care of themselves. i’ve never trimmed my pubes, and i say cock and twink just about every day. there are countless kinds of successful romantic relationships, and i know of plenty of flourishing gay communities of friends. sowing your wild oats and having a relationship do not have to be mutually exclusive. you should be having as much sex as you’re comfortable with. and there are plenty of dads who are fucking thrilled for their gay children.
being queer means letting go of heteronorms and building your world to reflect what works for you.
this homo’s experience is in no way prescriptive of everyone else’s. welcome to the variety of human experience.
Poet, Journalist, Performance Artist
Artist Ryan Grant Long